Archive for February, 2012

The Narrow Path is a Daily Decision…

We all want to experience ultimate peace and fullness and satisfaction and joy in our lives.  If you’ve met Jesus, reoented of sins, and trusted him as your Savior, you’ve at least experienced this 1 time.  (Hopefully more than 1 time, but at least 1 time).

In our time in the Word yesterday, I spoke about there is only 1 way to life.  Not many.  Just 1 way to experience satisfaction and fullness of joy and full life.  It’s through Christ, the narrow path.  Jesus says in Matthew 7:13 “Enter the narrow gate”, i.e., enter life for a reason.  He says to enter life because we are dead.  He wants to bring us from death to life.  He wants to bring us.  Not fame or fortune or works or connections or relationships, or strategy or ingenuity, or pedigree, etc.  He wants us to enter life and he gives us the answer to giving us life by being the answer to fullness of life.  The gospel.  Himself.

What I wish I would have hit on a bit more yesterday is that the narrow path is a daily decision.  We have to intentionally chose the narrow path daily in order to experience fullness of joy and satisfaction.  The world promises fullness and joy and satisfaction in lots of places.  Wide is that gate.  The result of not intentionally walking the narrow path, seeking life in Christ, is death and destruction.  The result is death and destruction, according to Christ, because the wide path is idolatry.  It is saying “something else can save me.  Something else has the power and potential to make me full, happy, satisfied, etc.”  And when we choose to live that way we experience disappointment, death and destruction.

Jesus is the way to Life.  The Narrow gate is the way to life.  Obey his call and “enter through the narrow gate…daily!”

Dig Deeper,

PC

Prayer barriers, pt. 1

Jesus says, “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.” (Matthew 7:7)

What should you and I do when we have needs?  Easy answer:  PRAY! That is what Jesus is communicating to his followers in Matthew 7:7.  It could be that Jesus and his disciples are at a place of need as Jesus speaks. Hunger.  Thirst.  Shelter.  Energy. Perseverance.  Protection.  Whatever need they had, Jesus’ instruction was clear: PRAY!

Why did Jesus have to share this with his followers, because it seems like commonsense to pray when we have needs.  Jesus shares this command in 3 ways (ask, seek, knock) for a very simple reason…because we DON’T pray when we’re in need.  All too often we do something much different than pray when in need.

So why don’t we pray?  We know we need to, or that we’re supposed to as followers of Christ.  I want to suggest the #1 prayer barrier is because we aren’t impressed with God.  We don’t pray because we’ve lost the luster of God.  We don’t consider and aren’t amazed at the grandeur of God.  We don’t sit and take the time and invest ourselves in prayer because we’re not consumed with our Creator.  Something has gone wrong and we’ve become impressed with other things, far and above God.  We text, we buy, we watch TV, we “do” other things, other than pray.  Why?  Because we’re far more impressed with other things far and above the creator of the universe, and the savior of our souls.  (I put myself in this category as well.)

Our enemy feeds us the deceiving lie that nothing will happen when we pray.  Our time can be better spent “doing” something about our need, rather than “praying” about our need.  Jesus promises 7 times in Matthew 7:7-11 that God will answer us with good things as we pray and ask, seek and knock.  But our enemy says, don’t bother.  Do something yourself.  Solve the need yourself.  Open the doors yourself.  Use your networks and connections you have personally to do something about your needs.  Don’t pray.  Do “do.”

When we are gripped with the greatness of God we delight in praying and talking to God – we don’t pray begrudgingly out of duty to God because we’re “supposed” to.  We delight in spending time with God.  Let me say it this way.  Inasmuch as we are impressed with God, we pray to God.  If little, then we pray little. If much, then we pray much.

So…what is your temperature today in measuring your being gripped by the greatness of God?

Here’s a practical help to get “re-gripped” by the greatness of God.  Consider and marinate daily on the gospel.  The good news that even though we rejected and rebelled against God, he sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to rescue the rejectors and rebellious ones.  The rejected God is also the rescuing the rejectors God.  Awesome.

Dig Deeper.

PC

Chocolate before bed prayers…

I’ve received a lot of feedback from yesterday’s message on Matthew 7:7-11.  Positive for the most part.  May God increase, and may I decrease!  Thanks to all who received the message well, and I pray now that God roots the truths of the text in your hearts for many days to come.

What I’m finding out most is that most people resonated with the portion of CHOCOLATE BEFORE BED PRAYERS. What I mean by this is Jesus promises us 7 times in Matthew 7:7-11 that as we ask, seek or knock, we WILL receive, find or have the door opened for us.  Jesus promises believers good things as they ask, seek and knock.  Done.  He WILL give.  He WILL open.  We WILL find.

The secret of this is rooted in what we will receive.  Here’s what He says will receive when we ask, seek and/or knock:  good things.  So…what are good things?  Good things may or may not be what we ask of God.  They may be.   But they may not be.

My daughter recently asked me for chocolate before bedtime.  I know how to give her good things, and I love giving her good things.  As she asked me for chocolate before bed I had a decision to make.  Yes or No.  I chose “no.” Why?  Because I love her and always am poised and ready to give her good things.  So I didn’t give her what she asked for.  I gave her bedtime.  That was a good thing for her.  It replenished her.  It refueled her.  It made her ready for another great day as a 2-year old.  I knew what she needed, but she really didn’t understand what she needed.  Do we ever do this to God in prayer?  Are we ever de-motivated to pray because we’ve tried asking, seeking and knocking and it hasn’t worked?  Do we ever not believe God because we’ve tried asking, seeking or knocking and those 7 promises seemed not to come true?  I’d say we’ve all been there.

Here’s the bottom line:  Are we praying chocolate before bed prayers?  Are we trusting in God to ALWAYS give to us good things, even when it appears he’s saying no to our requests?  When God doesn’t answer us according to our prayers, He’s not saying “no”, rather, He’s saying I’m giving you something good that you might not be able to see yet.

Sometimes waiting is good because it produces further trust and further experiences of God.  Sometimes pain is a good thing from God because it refines us to look more like Christ.  Sometimes pressure is a good thing from God because it forces us to rely on His strength and His persevering power at work in us.

Where are you?  Do you believe God ALWAYS comes through when we ask, seek and knock with good things?  Jesus says he does.  God always gives us when we ask him…just look for His definition of good.

Dig Deeper

PC

Fighting Worry with Finding Nemo….

At the DeArman house recently we have been on a Finding Nemo kick.  CS loves the movie.  She gets a kick out of all the fish and sea creatures…She gets a kick out of it.  I’m over it.  But…she gets a kick out of it so she wins.  Anyway, lessons from the movie are a plenty.

DORY:  Dory, the friend of Nemo’s Dad, Marlin, is a carefree kind of fish. She technically is a Pacific Regal Blue Tang.   Nothing gets to Dory.  She’s cool, calm and collected.  Not bothered by much.  No worries in her world.

MARLIN: Marlin is Nemo’s Dad.  He’s an Orange Clownfish.  He, in contrast to Dory, is a worrier.  He’s a worrier due to the fact that his family suffered great tragedy in the past, and he intends to guard against any further future tragedies, and so he keeps a tight reign on Nemo, his son.

Dory has a saying that say mentions as Marlin is, well, worrying.  She says, “Just keep swimming, just keep swimming.” What she is saying is profound.  Keep on going!  Don’t give up!  Just keep doing what you do!  She is encouraging Marlin to not give up hope, but to keep living.

I think there’s a lesson there for all of us.  What’s got you worried today?  Money?  Marriage?  Parenting?  Job? Economy? The political scene?  School? Friends?  Relationships?  Just keep swimming.

Here’s a deeper tip, though, that is core-level to being a believer in Jesus Christ.  Here’s how to keep swimming: Matthew 6:25-34.  Your identity as a child of God is a sharp tool against worry.  You’ve been blood-bought with Jesus death on the cross.  Through faith in Jesus, You’re a child of God, the King of Kings, the Lord of Lords, the blood-bought child of the Supreme and Sovereign One.  So because of this, just keep swimming!

Here’s some scriptures to encourage you today.  Look ‘em up and be encouraged:

  • Matthew 6:26
  • Matthew 6:30-32
  • Romans 8:12-17
  • Galatians 4:1-7
  • Ephesians 1:5
  • Colossians 1:9-14

Lessons from moving…

Sonya and I moved last weekend.  Actually we moved all of last week.  We spent several weeks packing the home where we lived and raised the girls EB and CS for the past 4 years.  Lots of memories there.  Lots of tears, laughter, guests, etc.  That was a great house.

What i’m not excited about are all the things that come with moving.  Setting up new services.  Transferring new services.  Set up fees.  Inconveniences of boxes everywhere.  Rehanging decorations.  Remembering where the coffee cups are in this house.  You know, all that stuff.

But we’re excited about this house too.  It’s close to EB’s school.  Great place to swim, run, be outside.  Great community.  Closer to where we spend most of our time.  All that stuff.  Also, sorting through the clutter and chaos.

Moving has got me thinking a bunch, theologically.  That’s dangerous.  Right now we have clutter and boxes everywhere. We’re working on getting settled, but it’s a work in progress.  We don’t know where we’re going to put certain things.  We’re in the middle of chaos.  In our lives, where is the clutter and boxes?  In your life, what needs “unpacking?”  What needs to be disclosed, unpacked, sorted through, evaluated?

Psalm 139:23-24 is a great verse.  It says, “Search me, O God, and know my heart! Try me and know my thoughts!  And see if there be any grievous way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting!”

We all need to be sorted through consistently, at least 1 time a month.  Our enemy distorts truth about who God is and what he’s done, and how he’s rescued the rebellious ones, even us.  What if we took 1 day a month, one afternoon, one morning, one day and de-cluttered…evaluated…sorted through our thoughts with the Holy Spirit at the helm?

Wanna join me?

Dig Deeper,

PC

Fighting Worry with Gospel-Identity…

Man, this week in the Word, my life was changed as I was reminded of a transformational truth.  It was life-giving to me.

I’m a self-confessed worrier.  I can worry about anything.  Why?  Because I’m a control freak.  I like a plan.  I like guardrails. I like rules.  I like to plot the course and travel down the road laid out for me.  Problem is, life doesn’t always play by the rules.  Life doesn’t always work out.  God doesn’t always give us the road map ahead of time – he gives it to us as we need it so that we’ll learn a rock-solid trust in who he is and learn faith along the journey.

So what to do with worry?  Couple of things:

We need to know that Worry and Anxiety is a part of the human condition and won’t go away until He returns.


We need to “not” try to rid ourselves of worry and anxiety by putting our lives in a box.


We need to FIGHT worry with gospel identity:  Here’s what I mean by this:  Jesus tells us “do not worry about your life…” (Matthew 6:25).  He then tells us why we don’t have to worry…This is where it gets good.  We don’t have to worry because we’re NOT Lilies and Birds.  Jesus says that he takes care of the birds of the air and the lilies of the field.  He then tells us we are more valuable than they are.  He’s saying don’t worry because you aren’t birds or lilies.  Who are we?  He says we are the Father’s kids.  He says “your Heavenly Father feeds them and clothes them. (Matt. 6:26 & Matt. 6:32)  Don’t miss this.  Jesus says we have a Heavenly Father.  We…sinful, rebellious, rejectors of God and worshippers of created things are the Father in Heaven’s kids.  The Father that we have rejected is also the Father who has rescued us through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ, adopting us as His children.

So…the point is this:  Fight Worry with Gospel-Identity.  We have a powerful weapon as we are prone to worry and be anxious.  That weapon is the truth that we are blood-bought children of the King.

Who are you?  Are you believing what God calls you if you’ve placed faith in Christ?  Inasmuch as you believe the truth of who and whose you are, your worry and anxieties will decrease.

Believe today!

Pastor Chris.